August 2015.
Stella visited, we did the touristy things, stayed out too late, drank too much, ate too much and had friends therapy.
We played a lot of golf. Had biggest fight ever about money, but it had to happen, spent the next day hungover and upset at North Avenue Beach watching the water show. Had dim sum with Bryce and his little family.
I did am/doing acupuncture for fertility. I like it. Can't explain it but it does seem to provide some sort of release. And has bizarre, good effect on bowel movements. Hopefully all the other cycles get back on board too. Finding out a friend is having her second today sort of felt like a knife in my chest for a minute. I keep telling myself... I'm 31. Almost 32. Twins. It will be all good.
We went to Michigan for a weekend -- stayed in Bear Lake, played golf at Pinecroft and Thoroughbred... made love on the golf cart in the rain as we were the only ones around. one of my favorite courses ever and not just 'cuz of that ;) Jumped in the crystal clear waters of Lake Michigan at Sleeping Bear Dunes and had dinner at Seven Monks in Traverse City. Enjoyed a bed and breakfast and spending time in the car together. Looked into finding morello cherries -- no luck. Dinner on the water in Saugatauk.
Sold the Florida condo -- made $180,000 on it in four years -- paid off all of my student loans and much of hubby's. Finally, finally light at the end of the financial tunnel. It feels incredible and not quite real yet. Happy to be 100% here, not having to still deal with a property down there -- so funny, because we said we would never, ever sell it. It was a beautiful place and I hope the new folks are happy there. We may regret it one day, but I sure don't regret having those loans paid off and having some cash to set aside for safety and a rainy day.
Trying to figure out what to do for Labor Day... stay in town, or take off on a crazy adventure because we can. We have a ton of fun trips coming up to see the Seahawks play all over the Midwest.
Went to Mothership in Ohio twice.... it's good to go down there and see/hear how things work at this job. I get nervous about some of the antics I hear about -- dont' want to be an ostrich, but a lot of seems to not affect me and I am perfectly happy to not know about other people's decades-long issues with the firm. But I don't want that to be me one day and feel trapped because I've had it so good for so long but could have it better -- but you just never know. And I, as much as anyone, learned that the hard way leaving my first job... yet it all turned out perfect and the right way in the end. It always does. Positive, fun, exciting things happening at work though -- on the verge of something really big in furtherance of my independence, but will also create a strange dependence... having a client that is "mine" but for which i would need to essentially outsource the work because I don't know it -- yet....
Onward, September! Six years at this game of law as of the Monday after labor day -- taht is hard to believe. I am happy that I like it. it still challenges me, interests me, tires me, and makes me crazy. I am happy to be debt free -- not from it, but from the wisdom of my husband and his immense sweat equity. but the jobs haven't hurt either.
moi.
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